OMG I am so furious, so I have to vent here where I can feel safe and not do any major damage.
We sent corrections to the SW. We corrected misspellings, and some minor factual info. Then we made some suggestions on how to make the information say the same things but nicer. For example saying my father was a good provider instead of saying that "he only provided income". I took about the part about my sister being materialistic bc I felt that is really had no place.
She wrote me back today to say that she fixed factual errors but kept the rest. OMG I was so furious. REALLY??? I have kept my mouth shut this whole time bc I have to. This is ridiculous.
Then I emailed her back and simply requested that she send me a final copy and I asked her who was going to see this report.
She writes me back with her phone number and asked me to call her to discuss this. REALLY??
There is no way that I am going to call her right now when I am so mad. What does she need to discuss? I really have no say in anything anyway. If she sent the report, she sent it. I am not sure what the big deal is to give me a final draft. I think I have a right to see it.
Why won't she tell me who is going to see it? I didn't think that she made me or my family look good, so I wanted to make sure that births parents don't see it.
UGH... So I started to search the net for other agencies to work with. It stinks bc most of them want an application and $200 or more. I am so sick of forms. I am sick of wasting time. I am tired of my dad asking me when I am getting a baby.
I really don't like my SW. I hope that this home study gets done soon bc I don't feel comfortable with this agency.
I sent an email to one agency asking about the procedure if I had a home study already completed. Hopfully it will not be that involved bc I can't take anymore with this lady.
Thank you for listening. I needed to vent.